Mon, 22 May 2017 07:00:00 GMT
Do you talk more than you listen?Listening is a skill which needs to be practiced and honed to perfection. Most people want to be "heard" and while engaged in a conversation we often begin to discuss, dispute, argue with, and state our own stance which creates a conversational divide. Would you be willing to set a goal this month on "listening?" Catch yourself interrupting, challenging or disputing and change your conversational approach. See if making this change allows you to feel close [...]
In Love with Someone Else
Mon, 08 May 2017 20:11:41 GMT
People sometimes seek therapy when they find themselves married or in a relationship yet "in love with another." How does this happen? What are the dynamics occurring where this would become possible?If one partner feels unloved, unaccepted, disrespected, dismissed, or unimportant, one might find themselves seeking love and validation somewhere other than with the primary partner. This can create angst, low self-esteem, guilt, deception, lies and emotional and sexual affairs. It is human nature [...]
Anger Poem
Wed, 19 Apr 2017 14:13:45 GMT
anger bubbles inside like a frothy spewing fountainit speaks silentlycreating a crevasse deep withinit’s voice calls out for attention“listen!” “hear me!”eating away at the lining of the silken soulanger erodes the essence of my spiritcleanse the effervescent furyand dream of the cool, clear well-springof warmth keep still…elationjl [...]
Take a romantic trip to rekindle the romance
Fri, 27 Jan 2017 17:32:15 GMT
Take an intentional, romantic vacation.Why?It may rekindle the initial romance which you felt for one another.As time goes on in a relationship, oftentimes partners begin to take each other for granted and become hyper-critical of one another. Planning a trip together can  rekindle the romantic feelings which a couple initially felt upon meeting and dating one another.Where might you like to go? The same place where you spent the honeymoon? A new exotic locale which offers the sun, beach an [...]